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Scorpio/8th House Placements: Irrational Obsession That Meant To Let Go

We all know that Scorpio/8th house placements are obsessive at some level cuz afterall, they are intense sign. A lot of situations in their life support that too, starts from the intense irrational hatred that they get from other people, their very ups and downs life, to sudden improvement that they have. All of those things shape very intense way of thinking and feeling to Scorpio/8th house placement. People going to say they are dramatic, but if your life has pushed you with very emotionally and mentally charging situations, won’t you be intense? As the quote says, life indeed a lot of times shape us

One noticeable thing about Scorpio/8th house placement is that they are being obsessed with something or someone (most of the times it’s someone) at some points of their life. By obsession, I mean really obssessed that their world is revolved around that person. They could smell the person’s presence by the signature scent of this person’s body, their voice, the way they move and speak, their laugh, and it even leads to sort of enmenshment that all of this person’s life experiences is somehow also being integrated to Scorpio/8th house life experiences but most importantly, to Scorpio/8th house’s emotional, mental, and spiritual life.

Scorpio/8th house placement indeed carry out obsessive style in love. It can happen to almost all people they are involved romantically, even with their friendship. I have heard multiple times where Scorpio/8th house cry when their friend don’t want befriend with them anymore or wait for that friend to come to them only to find out that this friend won’t come to them. Depending on the chart, they may not that obsessive toward everyone they are involved with. Scorpio/8th house’s obsession toward people have different level. There are mild obsession and hardcore obsession. The one I’m talking here is the hardcore one. Like someone has mentioned before, Scorpio/8th house first and most obsessive love toward someone happen when they are teenager (15-16 years old) or even younger (12-13 years old). As if it aligns with saying how teenager life is very determining for your future.

Depending your life situation, this hardcore obsession can happen again in your 20s with person who also represent perfection for you, which can be different level of obsession since your life outside romantic life has evolved. But your most noticeable and obsessive love usually is only one and happen in your teenage years. This most obsessive love can count by hands, usually not more than 3, just 2 even.

I have said in here that the level of obsession that Scorpio/8th house has is mesmerizing. One notable note here is that Scorpio/8th house obsession toward someone is always done to someone that represent perfectness in their life. This person can almost have no flaws. Everything about them start from their looks, intelligent, social status, how they are seen and treated by society, even their seemingly bright future glued Scorpio/8th house placements to the core. Again, like Scarlett who has deep crush on Ashley who’s handsome, wealthy, respectable in society, calm demeanor, have many skills (riding horse, dissecting literature, even survive at war) meanwhile she’s scandalous and even biggest flirt. Same with Gatsby when he was still poor has deep crush on Daisy who’s beautiful, wealthy, and also have large social circle (Scorpio being Libra in sidereal: attraction to perfection). That’s what make Scorpio/8th house placement chase this person so much. Oftentimes, it even goes for years. One of my Scorpio friend pining on someone for 6 years. Another one is 7 years. You see the longetivity of that feeling just show how intense they are.

The notes in here is that since I have said that their utmost obsession (one lifetime experience) happen to someone they find the most perfect, that means that it’s time for them to reevaluate what’s in their life that they are lacking. Could be them insecure with their looks, financial condition, how they are treated with society. Most of Scorpio/8th house have problems with people be it family or friends that a lot of times they like someone who’ antithesis of them, someone who’s very likeable by society. It’s a great platform for them to look deeper at their life. Pluto’s influence is all about learning about yourself and people around you through your most complicated, irrational, and isolating situation. You may see that nobody else going on the same situation as you and the obsession situation may be very difficult for you to deal cuz it’s very emotional draining and life changing. But a lot of times, they are meant to make you learn about yourself. Depending on your chart too if you also have Saturn influences, you are going to find out how the person you are obssessed with’s life situation correlate so much with your problems or how it’s gonna help you solve problems in your future or helping you to understand things you won’t understand if it’s not through them and this can happen in your professional life too outside romantic life. Like Gatsby finally learn how to be wealthy when he has nothing which means he build his money from ground only to get Daisy which is his subject of obsession, you also going to learn a lot of things outside your romantic life through your obsession with them. You could finally learn about your art skill, what you like for your school or major, your job, and else. At some points, your obsession toward someone is your biggest redirection in your life. It’s literally like the phrase that say “God uses someone to help you in your life.”

But there’s a note in this. Like all things in life, obsession like that is never meant to be hold on forever. At certain time, you need to let go of that when things can get so destructive. We all know that anything too much bring destruction and obsession toward someone is no different. We also see this in Scarlett (GWTW) and Gatsby’s situation. Scarlett lost Rhett which was her greatest husband, daughter, and Melanie as her female companion due to her obsession to Ashley. Gatsby lost his life even due to his obsession toward Daisy. Both of the ending tells at how their subject of obsession is never worth of their intense and life dedication feelings. Almost guaranteed that no matter how perfect their subject of obsession seems on the outside, their actual traits and emotional life are very crappy. These subject of obsession are never worth and good for them. You as Scorpio/8th house placements may notice about this although it may be very hard to accept

This obsession is indeed at some level feels karmic and destinied. They at the same time too are meant to be break off. Eventhough the process may be very excruciating, when you finally get over them, you may see how your life before you meet them, when you meet them aka you pining for them, and when you over them are very drastically different. It’s again like Scarlett where she’s pining for Ashley start from when she was still wealthy by her family, her family fell into poverty due to war and her mom passed away, her restructuring her life, her finally gather some money, to her finally get her wealth by marrying of Rhett which is a rich man. From sunny kid to most resillient survivor. Like different period in history and maturity acceleration. Good luck for whoever read this, especially Scorpio/8th house placements!

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